Have you been dealing with a picky eater or a child who is really fussy when it comes to food? It’s pretty frustrating isn’t it? Often times food is a one that young children feel they have some control over their life, so they play up big at eating time. But, there are genuinely some kids who have an unknown aversion to certain foods that they haven’t even tried. As a nutritionist, retired school teacher, mother and grandmother, I have seen what works to transform the pickiest of eaters. Ready to find out how? Read on.
Transform your picky eater
True story:
My 3 year old granddaughter, Kaia, wasn’t that keen on eating blueberries, so her mother decided to get her involved in making a blueberry sauce for pancakes.
Kaia, like most kids, enjoys measuring, adding ingredients to recipes, mixing and stirring. She also loves putting on the little apron and chef’s hat that grandma (me!) made for her.
While preparing the sauce, Kaia was “eyeing” the berries keenly as she dropped them into the saucepan and stirred. She said, “Well, maybe I’ll eat just one!” Once the sauce and pancakes were ready to eat and the table set, with the sauce as the main attraction, the family sat down to eat. Kaia’s brother exclaimed, “This blueberry sauce is so yummy!” Mommy said, “Kaia made it.” Kaia ended up having 3 servings. Picky eater of blueberries no more!
The quiest way to transform your picky eat is to get your kids involved in growing, tasting, touching, and making meals. This results in a familiarity, a bonding effect with the foods.
However, another great idea is to talk about the Color Families of food, what each family is noted for, and how this helps us grow healthy and strong. Have you ever noticed that kids’ eyes light up when shown bright colors? They especially love to look at a rainbow of colors – so why not apply this to fruit and veggie eating?
You could call these foods “go grow” foods so that kids can differentiate between “go grow” healthy and “no grow” unhealthy foods.
Let’s be detectives and find out the main nutrients in the Food Color Families.
Food color family
Red Family: tomatoes, watermelon, guava, red peppers : antioxidants lycopene and vitamin C help us fight diseases
Orange Family: Carrots, yams, sweet potatoes, pumpkins, mangoes : beta-carotene supports the immune system and is a powerful antioxidant
Certain nutrients found in carrots help the body fight bacteria and toxins that come in through the mouth and live in the gums and teeth which may lead to cavities and tooth decay. Carrots can help remove plaque and stains from teeth when eaten after meals. The fiber acts as a brush in the digestive system, whisking away bad bacteria. Who doesn’t love baby carrots? Make them organic to avoid pesticides and herbicides and other sprays we don’t need in our bodies.
Yellow-Orange Family: oranges, lemons, grapefruit, apricots, papayas, peaches, yellow peppers : provide lots of vitamin C to keep our cells working well, especially the adrenals
Green Family: spinach, kale, collards, broccoli, dill, parsley, zucchini, green peppers, cabbage, bok choy, romaine lettuce, arugula: packed with disease-fighting phytonutrients, especially for the heart and immune system
As research has proven, they are the first family you want to eat every day.
Blue Family: blueberries, purple grapes, blue plums
The pigment (blue color) anthocyanin destroys free radicals to help us stay healthy.
Red-Purple Family: Grapes, berries, plums, cherries, purple cabbage, beets : antioxidant powerhouses
Beets are a rare natural source of betalains, anti-aging pigments to neutralize toxins, combat inflammation and repair damaged cells. Other nutrients help the flow of blood and oxygen to the brain, to empower endurance, energy and memory.
You can buy beet juice in Health food stores, or add uncooked beets to a red smoothie with cherries or berries, some leafy greens, liquid and sweetener of choice, and vanilla extract. Bam! You’ve just helped your cells repair and regenerate.
You can also purchase beet powder online (e.g. Amazon.com) It works great to color frostings, whipped cream, and baked products. Get creative!
One of my most popular recipes is the simplest I have which is called “Fruit Swords”. You can find this recipe in the Snappy Snacks Cookbook Bonusyou receive when you purchase all 3 books in the “The Yummy Adventures of Celia & Cedric Read and Bake Series.
Special thanks to Laara Exsnar, author of The Yummy Adventures of Celia and Cedric for this guest post!
Tanya C. says
These books sound like something I could use right now! Teaching the younger ones early healthy eating habits is so important.
John Lopez says
Wow, this is really awesome. I had no idea about picky eater before, Im glad thatI found this blog post.
Uplifting Families says
I am so thankful that I don’t have a picky eater . I found that offering them a variety of foods when they are younger helps some. Aldo, dipping fruits or veggies into a dip can help tempt them to eat healthy stuff. Don’t forget to be a good role model too.
Robin Rue (@massholemommy) says
My little one is SOOOO Picky. I find that by giving him options and not forcing him to eat, he ends up making good choices on his own.
Liz Leiro says
This is a really smart way to get kids to try new foods! Kids are naturally curious so this totally makes sense 🙂
onceuponamaritime says
I always teach to try it before judging it! If they don’t like it then there is no harm, but we can’t have them afraid of trying new foods. This is a really good idea for the transformation.
Pam says
I think getting little ones involved in the whole process of selecting, cleaning and making different foods is a great idea for encouraging them to eat more of a variety. Growing the foods is even better if you have the means to do so. Lots of great info here.
michele d says
This sounds like a great series of books. My kids are getting better with eating but they all were picky when they were younger.
Chubskulit Rose says
My kids can eat pretty much everything that I prepare but these are great tips.
Yolanda Williams says
The little ones in my family are picky eaters too. But I realize that when I don’t force it on them they will eventually want to give it a try when they see us eating it.
tammileetips says
I know some of my friends that have kids that are picky eaters!! Sounds like great advice!
Rosey says
I’d totally use beet powder to color frosting. I love that you can creative with it, I’d have never thought of it until I visited this post!
Ron Leyba says
A really smart way to turn picky eater into a food lover. Great tips. Even adults can surely fall with this!
Alyssa C says
What a wonderful idea, my daughter use to be so picky! We started off by trying a few new things a week and thankfully it worked! I am going to share this with a few friends, thank you for sharing
Coolchillmom says
Having a picky eater I can feel the pain. This post is a godsend. Will be apying it all
CourtneyLynne says
These are some great ideas! My daughter just turned 3 and was always a fantastic water until recently. Now it’s a struggle to even get her to eat her favorite foods some days -_-
Lisa @bitesforbabies says
This is some great advice!! I love the concept of the colour wheel…great idea!
Shelley Zurek says
I love the idea of your granddaughter kayLa and the blueberry sauce, never thought about that approach.
Mykidsguide says
Those are great ideas. I always find that colors worked well with my picky eaters. Guess it is the same for you too
Yona Williams says
That’s so funny that blueberries are used as an example here because out of the blue, my nephew has a sudden love for this fruit! He’s so weird with his pickiness for fruits and vegetables.
Krystal says
Thank you for the tips! We actually are dealing with picky eating right now with my toddler, and I need him to eat better foods for his digestive system! They actually told us to avoid bananas and a few other things right now until he is more regular.
Peachy @ The Peach Kitchen says
I am very thankful that I don’t have a picky eater at home. I guess maybe that’s because they get involve with their food a lot.